Mr. Saint

有一种人叫做Mr Nice. 他得做人处事，交际手腕常常让我们这些普通，emotion management 有瑕疵，有血有肉的人佩服的五体投地。

在他们的身边，我们变得龌龊不堪。
所以我们有时会嫉妒，会忍不住破口大骂“真是个假好人”
有必要让自己显得那么高尚，让身边的人都看起来那么的低贱吗？
让别人做坏人，来凸现自己是Mr Nice, 这样的人好人吗？

有一个人一脸正经的纠正我，我不应该总是骂Mr Nice “假好人”
就像a half filled cup, 没有必要一定看成half empty cup
我可以说他只是不想做得太坏而已。
屁!@
假就是假
管它是好人还是坏人
反正世上没好人或坏人的
只有真或假
我就是不爽

PS: 做好人一直都是我的目标，我也常常是个politically correct的人，我也很佩服Mr Nice的做人处事手腕。我只是不屑假当圣人的假好人

I bought Mayday Concert DVD!

在听演唱会时就已经决定要买演唱会的DVD. 那时的我过度兴奋，也过于陶醉于绚丽的舞台无法专心听.没有办法听怪兽，石头他们的演奏，没有办法欣赏他们的编曲，没有办法仔细咀嚼阿信 美丽的歌词，我觉得很可惜。。。可是没有办法不high,不然会更对不起自己。

现在只look forward 去dajie家，with他们家的surround sound system and big screen 看MAYDAY DNA concert DVD!

Wake Up! 创造自的DNA. Dream on!

昨晚睡得不好（其实早上才开始睡的）。一直在震撼，兴奋，心身疲惫之间挣扎。醒来时脑海里还闪着五月天演唱会的画面，还响着五月天的歌。



第一次的户外演唱会
第一次那么靠近五月天
第一次没有拿着荧光棒的演唱会


虽然已经看过去年的DNA演唱会，可是这次的无限放大版，应该是很多新加坡五月天歌迷的梦想吧！


很绚丽的舞台，很酷的舞台设计，很棒的五月天的歌，很震撼人心的五月天精神！

贯穿整场演唱会的“电影”，虽然已经看过了，还是觉得好酷哦！

是什么让我决定我的人生？我最初的梦想现在还我在我手上吗？
我没有办法改变世界，可是我的人生是我可以决定的。我能不能实现我的梦想不是在我控制之中，可是只要全心全意追求梦想，至少不会有遗憾，至少很多年后会很开心我有过这么美的梦。

"I Promise myself"

I just read this quote from Fornightly Friday Tips from my company, it is shared by one of a well-respected trainer. This is quoted from ‘The Secret’ website, affirmation by Christian D Larson called ‘I Promise Myself’

Let me reproduce it here:

“To be so strong that nothing can disturb my peace of mind.

To talk health, happiness, and prosperity to every person I meet.

To make all my friends feel that there is something worthwhile in them.

To look at the sunny side of everything and make my optimism come true.

To think only of the best, to work only for the best and to expect only the best.

To be just as enthusiastic about the success of others as I am about my own.

To forget the mistakes of the past and press on to the greater achievements of the future.

To wear a cheerful expression at all times and give a smile to every living creature I meet.

To give so much time to improving myself that I have no time to criticize others.

To be too large for worry, too noble for anger, too strong for fear, and too happy to permit the presence of trouble.

To think well of myself and to proclaim this fact to the world, not in loud words, but in great deeds.

To live in the faith that the whole world is on my side, so long as I am true to the best that is in me.”

I hope i'll inch my way to become a better person with this reminder.

天上的星星

昨晚我心血来潮第散步回家
朝着我家方向走，仰头看时竟发现星空好漂亮！心情也漂亮起来。
应该是没有云吧，星星一闪一闪地，看得好清楚！

不知道为什么，脑海里响起了五月天的“知足”

是的，这样小小的幸福也很难的，我要懂得惜福

7 habits of highly effective people - part 1

I am reading the above-mentioned book recently. will be posting my thoughts here - to maximize the benefit of reading a book is to share!

Paradigm: Paradigm is like a lens we choose to look through to see the world. Shifting of paradigm will change perspective.

I thought hard about it. It was mentioned in the book, we can't solve problem at the level we created them. To change, I must be able to see from a different perspective or to grow to a new level. So I thought hard, what perspective have I been using all these while to look at my world? What different perspectiive can I have to see myself?

During one of the meetings, a trainer once shared: it took years for British to accept that selling is not a bad word. In our society, "selling" sometimes may be associated to something bad too, it is easy to refer peoplt to buy, but it is difficult to refer people to sell.

But when we are still a baby, we are natural sellers. We cry to get the things we want, and we won't give up till we get the things we want. This is the most natural form of selling: "influencing others to make an action". Why when we are grown up, we'd feel awkward to sell? We would feel guilty to sell an idea to others, it is inconsiderate to put our thoughts on others. We would feel embarrassed to ask for a favor, it is selfish to ask someone else to do things for us. But to limit our natural potential, is it worth it?

So I've decided to be a good sales person! In order to realise my dream, I have to be good at selling! I have to influence people around me to achieve their dreams, be it retire young, to provide good life for their families, or to lead the life they want... There is nothing wrong to make this world a better place, isn't it?

怎么做个好太太？

前阵子和一个朋友聊起XL常做工到早上才回家的事，他的第一反应竟是：“huh.. then how to have babies?"

撇开“为什么结婚就一定要有小孩”这问题不谈，“我真的能照顾另一个小生命，付起一个人的一生的责任吗？“这，我觉得比较严重些。我好像连自己都照顾不好了（不然怎么会生病呢），怎么照顾一个小baby?

" 我应该会把baby丢下楼吧”我那时是这样回应朋友的关心。

长期一人在家，孤单有时候不知道会把人折磨成什么样子
更何况要应付整天只会哭的小东西。。。

XL周末时又提起要换工作。
他说不换工作没办法组织家庭。他觉得如果我一个人照顾小孩我一定会受不了。
“可以的！不要拿我当借口！别人可以，我一定也可以的啊！”当时我是争着眼睛这样回答他的。
我不可以成为他事业的绊脚石。他也不应该看不起我啊！别人可以成为“成功男人背后的女人”，没道理我不行啊。。。他要换工作，怎么可以是因为我呢？我又不是他的工作？我可是要做tai tai 的！